Bear Management

A Canadian runner friend told me about a trail race she was competing in, where she was chased by a bear. I said, “That must have been scary”. She replied, “It wasn’t the biggest bear I’d seen and besides as soon as I passed another runner the bear was their problem”. That statement was true and it was symbolic of so much in our lives.

Successful, well adjusted people have just as many concerns as any of the rest of it. The difference is that they meet a problem head on and decide what to do about it. Like the runner with the bear, they don’t panic or complain, they deal with it. You don’t hear them say, “I can’t ever catch a break”. Usually the people you hear say that are not trying very hard to catch anything. They are to busy complaining and trying to justify why they aren’t doing better.

People who make healthy lifestyle changes all have their own bears to deal with. For some their bear is that they are carrying to much weight, for others it might be unhealthy addictions like smoking or it could be an issue with self worth. Stress eating, feeling you can’t function without that regular soft drink even shyness can all be concerns that must be handled. As adult athletes we have bears that are unique to us. An injury can throw us into a panic but that won’t help. We have to calm down and make some decisions, so we can start healing, then get back to our sport.

Some bears are harder to deal with than others but each has to be dealt with when it starts chasing you. As with any other concern, complaining isn’t going to stop that bear, positive action is needed. Take charge and practice good bear management and you will find that life isn’t nearly so over whelming.

It’s not just a step, it’s a start.

Dave